I think what I hate most
is when people (even my friends) feel the need to make comments about what THEY think about MY presence.
"Yea, you have gotten skinnier lately"
“You look tired”
“You should do your hair like this, because this is what I think is cute or better for you”
“You’re such a downer.”
Then when I ignore them or attempt to fake smile them away, MORE comments/assumptions about what they think of me.
"Oh, must’ve been a long day huh?"
“Put your head up.”
Maybe, I just don’t feel like pleasing you or anyone else right now. Maybe I AM tired from working 3 jobs and trying to keep my head above water with everything I’ve had to deal with this past year alone. I keep my comments to myself and let everyone else be.
And I would absolutely LOVE it if they would just allow me to do the same. Damn."